Facebook continues to amaze and amuse me. What has really struck me lately is how it takes friends and acquaintances from wildly different parts of my life and puts them all in the same place. One friend of mine called this 'homogenization' of people. (Thanks Mark) I guess I am used to my friends being compartmentalized. . .college, former youth, family, online friends, etc. Some of these friends know some things about me. . .others are privy to a whole different slate of information. (For example, many people know what the name of this blog signifies. Many do not.)
Just the other day, a several friends posted their status messages, as usual. The first one was one of my more conservative friends who was ranting about President Obama. Directly after that, was a status from one of my gay friends talking about a Pride March he was in. Right after that was a family member talking about moving from one state to another. And after that was a Christian friend of mine, using her status to broadcast her faith.
You get the idea. I had to chuckle. I started to think, which one of my friends would unfriend me if they could see all my other friends. Would my pro-choice friends disown me because I also have pro-life friends? Would my atheist friends sneer at my christian friends? Would my straight friends be shocked that I have gay friends? What kind of conversations would ensue if everyone was gathered in one room?
It only makes sense. I usually describe myself as a mutt when meeting new people. I have threads of many different philosophies, beliefs and choices flowing through me. It helps me to relate to individuals and groups of many different backgrounds. I was just always the kid who had friends of all different kinds, shapes, and colors. I always try to respect other people for their beliefs; while still holding intact my own beliefs. So my FaceBook friends are a reflection of all of this.
I would like to bring everyone together in one room. Just to see. How many people would get into heated conversations. How many people would make new friends. How many people would storm out of the room.
Wouldn't it be fun to watch.
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